For years, I was caught in a cycle of constant doing — long hours, endless to-do lists, and a mind that never truly switched off. Even when I tried to rest, guilt crept in. I’d tell myself I deserved a break, only to end up checking emails or planning my next task.
The more I pushed through, the more I felt disconnected from myself. I thought I just needed more sleep, but no amount of it helped. That’s when I realised: the problem wasn’t just tiredness. It was the belief that I had to earn rest.
Over time, I saw that I wasn’t the only one. So many women, especially those with migrant or cultural expectations, are quietly exhausted — and trying to rest alone.
Rest Without Guilt was born from this realisation: rest doesn’t have to be earned, and it doesn’t have to be lonely. When we rest together, we begin to heal.